Showing posts with label Aniko. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Aniko. Show all posts

Thursday, August 12, 2010

if you want to be happier, read this book-- really.

Family member: Aniko
Book: EAT, PRAY, LOVE by Elizabeth Gilbert

Brad and I stopped by The Strand Bookstore again last Monday so he could pick up a new Oliver Sacks book (which looks really cool-- can't wait to read his review). I spent the whole time winding through the miles of narrow stacks across three floors. I was unfocused, unable to commit to buying a book, even ones I had been meaning to read forever. After an hour, I was standing with Brad in line, resigned to leaving without something to read. At that moment, though, out of the corner of my eye I saw a book with three huge words on the cover: EAT, PRAY, LOVE. On an impulse I grabbed the book and thrust it onto the checkout counter at the last second.

I'm generally a pretty picky reader. I normally choose classics, modernist novels, and quirky contemporary stories (which, more often than not are set in NYC). I'm not sure that I had read anything on a New York Times bestseller list before. But, let me tell you-- this book was AMAZING. I wasn't able to put it down until I finished it this morning (silently reading while Brad made me breakfast and then silently reading while I ate the breakfast and he stared at me).

I had read an article about the backlash against the book the day before (as they say there's no such thing as bad press) and was intrigued by what the article said. EAT, PRAY, LOVE is an autobiographical account of the trip the author took to Italy, India, and Bali after a painful divorce and her equally painful subsequent relationship. She basically eats her way through her 4 months in Rome (gaining 23 healing pounds in the process!). She then spends 4 months meditating in an Ashram in India (which I think is really, really cool. She attempts to describe the absolutely outofthisworld experiences that she has while meditating and I'm definitely intrigued). Finally, in Bali (which also sounds amazing) she comes to a point of balance someplace between that decadence and the self control.

This story would normally sound far too ridiculous for the often cynical me to be interested-- but it's good, really good. She's a fantastic writer (if a bit of an emotional wreck as a person) and the way she's able to weave the story together is fascinating and intriguing. And inspiring. GIlbert's journey for self discovery is already nudging me to take stock of what's important and what's excess in my life and how to remain balanced and happy. If this is telling-- when I finish a book that I'm really in love with, I normally feel a bit depressed when I come to the end because it's over. The end of this book left me feeling both empowered and relaxed-- I'm a bit incredulous that the book had such an great impact on me, but I love it all the same.

Don't get me wrong, though-- there's no way that I'm going to see the movie. The movie's going to be ridiculous.

Monday, July 5, 2010

to start things off: a book on books.

family member: Aniko
book: EX LIBRIS: CONFESSIONS OF A COMMON READER by Anne Fadiman

Brad and I recently took a friend who was visiting us in New York to The Strand . It's a famous used and new bookstore that boasts having over 18 miles of books within its three floors of winding and narrow aisles. Before our friend left, she gave us the one thing that she scoured the store for, a copy of EX LIBRIS as a gift to thank us for housing her. She said that it was her favorite book and, knowing our tastes, she insisted that we would love it too.

I love books. But a book about books? I wasn't interested. I feigned delight, poorly I think, because our friend insisted on reading one of the essays aloud to hook us on the book. Which worked. The book is awesome.

This book is a collection of short essays that Fadiman wrote about reading, words, books, etc, etc. I saw my own excessive love of books and words expressed in some of the essays-- Fadiman writes, humorously (always) about the difficulty she and her husband had in deciding to finally merge (and pare down) their libraries after ten years of living together, needing something to read so badly that she once read a car manual (something which I have certainly done with cereal boxes or instructional manuals), her musings from reading through a book that belonged to her great-great grandmother, the joys of reading aloud-- there are 18 essays altogether.

The essays are perfect to read in snatched pieces of time-- I read during train rides, while the oven warmed up, whenever I had a minute-- and it still went fast.

I highly recommend this book to people who consider themselves to be bibliophiles. It's funny, smart, and will leave you wanting to find more books by Fadiman. (which I did immediately after reading this one.)

get it here: http://www.amazon.com/Ex-Libris-Confessions-Common-Reader/dp/0374527229

Please respond to this post with book suggestions that might match this book, or let us know if you've read EX LIBRIS.

love,
Aniko